Do Catholic weddings always take place during Mass?
No. Weddings can be celebrated either during the celebration of Mass or during a Liturgy of the Word. Normally, weddings are celebrated during Mass only when both parties are of the Catholic faith.
Does the Chapel have policies regarding the content of the wedding service, the music to be used, etc.?
Yes. The content of the service is set forth in the Church’s official Ritual Book for weddings, the Order of Celebrating Matrimony (2016). However, the couple being married is encouraged to engage in helping to plan the wedding service by choosing the Scripture readings that will be used during it. There are certain other options for the service, too, which will be explained to you. The Chapel also has standards and policies regarding the music to be used at a wedding. All policies are outlined in the SU Wedding Guidelines.
Who is able to officiate at weddings in the Chapel?
The couple typically approaches their own priest or deacon to witness at their wedding. This person could be from this diocese, or another diocese. If you belong to another parish in the Archdiocese, your pastor will be the appropriate person to approach in this matter. You may also approach a member of the Seattle University Arrupe Jesuit Community.
Are people who are not of the Catholic faith able to be married at the Chapel of St. Ignatius?
They are, if they are marrying a Catholic.
Are people who have been married before able to be married in the Catholic Church?
Normally speaking, the answer to this question is no. That is because the Catholic Church regards marriage as a permanent commitment. Couples may have recourse to an annulment, but we do not have the staff capacity or expertise at the university to assist you in this process. Please contact your home parish for assistance. Weddings will not be scheduled at the Chapel if either party has a previous marriage (religious or civil) which is not yet formally annulled by the Catholic Church.